Working two jobs.. working mothers

So as I am writing this to you, I am feeling like a failure at one of those jobs, the more important of the two... being a mother. I am seeing the psychological effects my being in another island for work, and only seeing them on the weekends, is having on my children, and their school work but of course having no income to be there for my children is not the answer either. So where is the balance?

This is the question that I and so many other working parents struggle with on a daily basis.

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  1. karrie9 January 2012 at 20:44

    I'm so relating to this right now. Wish there was a way to jump off the treadmill for a while, quieten my body and soul for a bit, and get back on.

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